I remember a particularly poignant question my younger son asked me once during a visit from his grandfather. On the Saturday afternoon of my dad’s visit, my son and I were throwing the baseball outside while my father was taking a short nap in his room. I can always tell when one of my boys has something on his mind. So I probed and asked him if everything was all right. He responded with, “Dad, remember when we talked about what it means to be successful a few weeks…